When a loved one passes away, it puts emotional and mental stress on those left behind. The death of a family member often also brings logistical, financial, and administrative tasks. In addition to dealing with the reality of the loss, many people will suddenly find themselves in the position of executor, planner, and often mediator. The combined mental, physical, and emotional labor can be a lot. This goes double if your employee was also the deceased’s caregiver. While no one likes to think about losing people they care about, bereavement leave is a way to help employees when it inevitably happens. Learning about bereavement leave — before you or your team needs it — can help ease a difficult time period.
What is bereavement leave?
Most employee bereavement leave policies stipulate that the person who passes away has to be a close family member, like a parent, sibling, child, or spouse. However, in most cases, bereavement can be used to attend to the death of any loved one. Bereavement leave policies are usually outlined in the employee handbook if the company has one. It’s not uncommon for small to medium-sized businesses to not have a formal leave policy.
Is bereavement leave mandatory?
There is no federal law that mandates employers to provide bereavement leave to their employees. There are also no state laws and currently, only one state, Oregon, has a leave law in place. Employment law requires companies that do offer bereavement or other formalized leave agreements to uphold them equally for each employee. Even though companies are generally not required to provide bereavement leave, that may change if they hire union workers.
Unions might negotiate grief as part of a collective bargaining agreement. Employees are also not required to take bereavement leave. The time, if available, is there to be used at their discretion. However, even though time isn’t required, both employees and employers should advocate for this important employee benefit. Grief can have an impact on your well-being, both physically and emotionally. Pushing through the pain — even if it helps to take your mind off of things in the short term — can lead to complications from unresolved grief down the line. These might include anger, obsession, fatigue, depression, or addictive behavior.
Is bereavement leave paid?
Companies that do provide bereavement leave may provide paid, unpaid, or a mix of both. Since there are no federal laws regulating bereavement leave, the policies are offered case-by-case. However, having a formal policy in place helps ensure fairness and consistency within the organization. Although it’s not required, most companies (around 88%) offer paid leave to employees that have lost a loved one. Some companies — notably Facebook/Meta and Adobe — provide up to four weeks of paid leave.
Generally, anyone who works at a company full-time is considered an eligible employee. Offering paid leave to employees dealing with grief isn’t just the right thing to do — it’s a smart move for companies. Employees that feel valued and cared for at work are more likely to stick around. Whatever funds are spent on paid leave are easily less than turnover costs. Just as taking sick leave ultimately boosts productivity, encouraging employees to attend to their emotional and physical well-being makes them more engaged and productive when they return. While any type of guaranteed leave is beneficial, paid leave gives your employee one less thing to worry about during an emotionally trying time. It’s a subtle but powerful way to let them know that you care about them.
How long is bereavement leave?
The length of bereavement depends on several factors. The most common distinction in types of leave is the relationship between the employee and the deceased. In most cases, employees receive a minimum of three days of bereavement leave for the death of an immediate family member. Such leave often includes parents, siblings, children, spouses, and grandparents. However, many companies offer up to two weeks of paid leave, and potentially additional time as an unpaid benefit.
There might be a time limit on unpaid bereavement leave. For non-immediate family members, it’s customary to receive at least one day of paid leave — although some organizations offer more. Many organizations also offer a brief, four-hour leave to attend the funeral or memorial service of a coworker. While the relationship to the decedent is often used to determine how much leave an employee is entitled to, that practice is becoming dated. As the family structure moves away from the “nuclear” stereotype, people form relationships that are different and more complex. For example, some people are raised by a guardian or hold primary responsibility for a friend’s estate. It should be up to the individual to determine how much time they need to grieve a loss.